I hope you had a great New Year celebration with family and
friends. Personally, I stayed home and watched the celebrations from around the
world on my television.
How many of you make New Year’s Resolutions? I’ve never been
one to make them, mostly because it always felt like I was setting myself up
for failure. And we’ve talked about that monster—The Fear of Failure. Hideous
creature!
This year, however, I decided to make a few resolutions.
Hopefully I have worded them in such a way I have left myself open for success.
1.
Begin a journal and try to write in it every
single day. For years I have read of the benefits of journaling. Actually
starting one, though, never seemed to happen. One fear is having any
angst-written entries read by someone after I am gone from this mortal plane.
Now, however, I am going to actually carry through with it and see if it helps
me through this trying time.
2.
Learn to be more gracious during the trying
times. This resolution came about because there have been a few things happen
during this breakup that I allowed to overwhelm me, then I did not handle them
very well. Most recent case in point, when the “other woman” tried to friend my
author Facebook page. I admit—I handled that very poorly.
3.
Map out my finances and set goals for each
month. I think many of us have resolutions about getting a handle on our
finances, right? I even went so far as to map out my budget and an Annual Financial
Snapshot in Excel spreadsheets. They are even filled with color, to keep me
staying positive.
4.
Take better care of my health.
5.
Finish the remaining three short stories for the
Tales from the Nordonians. Pretty
much self-explanatory. There are three more and I need to get them completed,
and soon.
6.
Write “Taylor’s Story” (book four) for the IMS series. I don’t have a fifth book in
mind yet, but there is plenty of time for inspiration to strike. ZAP!
7.
Get an outline started for my Fantasy series
that I have been dreaming of all year! Even if I just get the outline started,
I feel this will help me tremendously.
There you have it. My 2015 Resolutions. I’m hoping I kept
them open-ended enough that I won’t have to deal with the Fear monster. So what
are some of your resolutions? What made you choose them?
Until next time…be kind to each other…and to yourself!
Hi Ava. Your resolutions are inspiring and I'm sure you'll find success. I don't make resolutions, but yours have given me food for thought. Thank you. Happy New Year. Hugs. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you!
ReplyDeleteI'll respond more but for now: I like resolutions 5 and 6. They are measureable. They are realizable. They are realistic (as far as I know). And, not to be too greedy or self-serving, I would benefit as a fan.
ReplyDeleteThe others are fine but leave undefined what qualifies as success. You risk being unsatisfied with your results no matter how much you achieve.
With my hug, Jon